Somatic Sex Coaching Curriculum Overview

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This document outlines the online curriculum for our Somatic Sex Coach Training. Each level explores a different dimension of sexuality—mental, relational, emotional, and physical—while providing a comprehensive blend of theory, practice, and personal exploration. To give you a sense of the depth and richness of this training, several modules have been expanded in detail (Level One: Modules 1, 2 & 8; Level Two: Module 6; Level Three: Module 2; Level Four: Module 9). These expansions showcase the range of text, video, exercises, and guest lectures included throughout the course. If you have questions about sections not expanded here, please don’t hesitate to ask—we are happy to guide you.

LEVEL ONE

The Mental Realm of Sexuality

 

Introduction

• Welcome Note

• Entire Training Overview

• Introduction and Unit Outline

• Code of Ethics and Practice

• Recorded Book Club Calls

 

Module 1 – The Mind & Mental Health in Sexuality

1. The Mind & Mental Health in Sexuality

2. The Oppression of Female Sexuality

3. Body Image and Sexuality

4. Demonization of the Inner Labia

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Understand how the mind influences sexual well-being.

• Recognize the impact of oppression and cultural narratives.

• Identify strategies to support clients with body image concerns.

• Explain the effects of stigma on female anatomy and sexual confidence.

 

Module 2 – Mind-Body Connection

1. Mind-Body Awareness

2. Vaginismus & Vulvodynia

3. Approaching Genito-Pelvic Pain/Penetration Disorder (GPPPD)
    

Learning Outcomes:

• Explain the relationship between the mind and body in sexuality.

• Identify psychosomatic influences in sexual challenges.

• Support clients experiencing vaginismus and vulvodynia.

• Apply intake frameworks for GPPPD in coaching practice.
   

 

Module 3 – Breath & Pleasure

1. Breath to Ease the Nervous System

2. Breath to Expand Pleasure

3. The Mind & Pleasure

4. Introduction to Somatic Sex Coaching

5. Working with the mind in Somatic Sex Coaching

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Apply breathwork tools for nervous system regulation.

• Teach clients breath techniques to deepen pleasure.

• Connect symbolic elements (air/mind) to somatic sex coaching.

 

Module 4 – Cultural & Relational Programming

1. Dismantling the “Feminine Program”

2. Science of Female Relationships

Learning Outcomes:

• Identify societal programming for AFAB individuals.

• Explore scientific perspectives on female relationships.

• Develop coaching strategies to deconstruct limiting narratives.
   

Module 5 – Yoni Expressions

1. Education around differing yoni expressions; shapes, tastes, scents, appearance.

2.  Yoni Love Challenge. 

 

 Learning Outcomes:

• Cultivate appreciation for vulva diversity.

• Support clients in overcoming shame related to genital appearance.

• Guide clients through exercises in self-love and yoni celebration.
   

 

Module 6 – Ritual & Embodiment

1. Ritual 

2. Dance / Movement
    

Learning Outcomes:

• Incorporate ritual into client sessions.

• Use movement and dance to unlock sensual expression, shift the energy, encourage embodied expression, increase somatic awareness and process emotions.

• Teach clients how to integrate embodiment into daily life.

 

Module 7 

1. Follicular Phase / First Quarter Moon / Spring / Maiden Phase

2. Maiden 7 Day Journey

3. Archetypal Energy of Aphrodite

4. Sensual Dance

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Map menstrual/seasonal phases to archetypal energies.

• Teach clients how to harness the Maiden phase for growth and sensuality.

• Explore dance as an embodiment of archetypal energy.
   

 

Module 8 – Attitudes, Beliefs, Values & Prejudices

1. Attitudes, Beliefs, Values & Prejudices 

2. Approaching Sexual Issues

3. Access to Lingam Worship Course

4. Access to Conscious Kink Course

5. Self-Assessment

6. Level One Assessment

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Identify personal biases and their impact on coaching.

• Develop inclusive and non-judgmental approaches to sexuality.

Access tools for working with kink, lingam worship, and diverse practices.
Reflect on personal and professional alignment through assessment.

Module One Expanded

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1.0 The mind & Mental Health in Sexuality

• The Mental Erotic Gate

• Our Cycles & Mental Health

• Mental Health for those AFAB

 

1.1 Sexual Oppression of Women & Vulva havers

• Judgments in Sexuality

• Beliefs Attitudes & Values Quiz

• Oppression of Female Sexuality

• Your judgements in Sexuality - Deep Dive

 

1.2 Body Image in Sexuality

• Self-Image & Sexuality

• Why Body Image is Important in Female Sexuality

• Body Image Neutrality

• Body Image Exercises

 

1.3 Demonization of Inner labia

• Australia’s Law on Inner Labia

• Vulva Diversity

• Genital Self-Image in Adolescence

• Clitoracy With Jessica Anne Pinn

• Labiaplasty, Plastic Surgeons & Social Media

Module Two Expanded

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2.0 Mind-Body Connection

• Mind-Yoni Connection

• Psychosomatics & Our Work

• Mind-Body Connection Exercise

• Specialists in the Field of Mind-Body Work

 

2.1 Vaginismus and Vulvodynia 

• Introduction to Pain

• Vaginismus Overview

• Vulvodynia Overview

• Other Types of Female Genital Pain

 

2.2 How to Approach Genito-Pelvic Pain/Penetration Disorder

• GPPPD & Actions to Take

• General Sexual History Intake Form

• Sexual History Intake Form: Focus on Vaginismus/Vulvodynia

• GPPPD (Genito-Pelvic Pain/Penetration Disorder)

• Scholarly Articles on GPPPD

• Vaginal Dilators

• Yoni Massage a GPPPD

Module Eight Expanded

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8.0 Attitudes, Beliefs, Values, Prejudices

• Terminology in Sex and Gender

• Gender is a Social Construct

• Sex & Gender with Cam Fraser

• CW: LIVE SURGERY Bottom Surgery

• LGBTQIA+ Allyship Handouts

• Allyship for POC

• Sexual Expression

• List of Paraphilias

• BDSM & KINK

• Extended Referral list

• Inclusivity Quiz

 

8.1 Approaching Sexual Issues

• How to Approach Sexual Issues

• Vaginal Health

• Low Libido/Desire

• When Things Don't Shift

• Motivational Interviewing

• The Subconscious Mind

• Language as a Tool

• Self-Worth & Sexuality

 

8.2 Access to Lingam Worship Program (CONTENT WARNING)

• Introduction

• Sexual Language

• Erotic Talk

• Anatomy

• Male Anatomy Types

• Structures and States of the Lingam

• Lingam Libation & Massage (CW)

• Lingam Massage Extras (CW)

• Fellatio and Deep Throating (CW)

• Anal Worship (CW)

• Intimacy, Communication & Boundaries

• Ejaculation & Erectile Disappointment

 

8.3 Conscious Kink Program

• Introduction

• Week 1

• Week 2

• Week 3

• Week 4

• Guest Lecturer: Vanessa Priestess

 

8.4 Self-Assessment

• Section Overview

• Exercise 1

• Exercise 2

• Essay

• Quiz: Level One Reflection

LEVEL TWO

The Relational Erotic Realms of Sexuality

 

Module 1 – Sexual & Erotic Intelligence

1. Sexual & Erotic Intelligence

2. Spirituality & Sexuality

3. Masculine & Feminine Theory and its Limitations

4. Element of Fire in Sexuality

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Understand erotic intelligence and its spiritual aspects.

• Recognize the use and limits of gendered energy frameworks.

• Integrate fire as a symbolic and practical element in relational sexuality.
   

 

Module 2 – Sexual Energy & Orgasm

1. Sexual Energy

2. Orgasm

3. Pleasure & Orgasm

4. The Science of Arousal

5. The Science of Desire & Motivation

6. Hurdles in Pleasure & Orgasm

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Teach the physiology of arousal and orgasm.

• Address blocks in pleasure with evidence-based tools.

• Support clients in overcoming orgasmic challenges.
   

Module 3 – Cyclical Awareness: Mother Archetypes

1. Ovulation / Full Moon / Summer / Mother Phase

2. Mother Wound

3. Mother Archetypes

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Explore the archetype of the Mother in sexuality.

• Identify wounds and challenges linked to maternal narratives.

• Support clients in embracing or healing maternal archetypes.
   

 

Module 4 – Other Archetypal Energies

1. Other Sensual & Sexual Archetypal Energies

2. The Art of Seduction

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Explore seduction as an archetypal and relational energy.

• Teach clients how to harness seduction in empowered and embodied ways.

 

Module 5 – Ritual & Movement

1. Dance & Embodiment Practices

2. Ritual

Learning Outcomes:

• Incorporate dance and movement as relational tools.

• Guide clients through sensual rituals for self-expression.
   

 

Module 6 – Partnered Coaching & Relational Tools

1. Introduction to Partnered Coaching

2. Partnered Pleasure

3. Father/Masculine wound

4. Supporting/Navigating the Partner of Clients

5. Sacred Union Exercises

6. Role Play & Fantasies

7. Relationship & Erotic Types

8. Access to: The Art of Cyclic Love Making

9. Access to: Partnered Pleasure Intimacy Reset 10 step journey

10. Contemporary Sex Therapy Video Demonstrations

11. Level Two Assessment

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Facilitate partnered coaching sessions with confidence.

• Guide clients through intimacy-building and partnered pleasure.

• Work with wounds related to masculinity and relational imbalance.

• Support clients in exploring relationship types and erotic blueprints.

Use role play and fantasy exploration as coaching tools.

Module Six Expanded

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6.0 Partnered Coaching Introduction

• Safe Sex

• Revisiting the bio-psycho-social model

• Healthy Sex Life

• Stress & Sex

• Female & Male Approaches to Sex

• Initiating Sex

• Exercise: Shifting Goal of Sex

• Pleasure Mapping

• Pleasure Menu

• Touch, Arousal and Desire

• Erogenous Zones

• Types of Breath

• Orgasm & Penetration

• Masculine and Feminine Energy

 

6.1 Father / Masculine Wound

• Healing our Relationship with the Masculine

• Father Wound Exercise

• Group Coaching Example: Topic- Father Wound

• Athena the Golden Heroine

• Athena Breathwork Journey with Sara Silverstein

 

6.2 Sacred Union Exercises

• Sacred Union With Self

• Communication

• Intimacy

• Connecting positions and exercises 

 

6.3 Role Play and Fantasies

• Fantasies & Partners

• Role Play

• Threesomes

• Conscious Kink with Sara Silverstein

• Other Partnered Exercises

 

6.4 Relationships and Erotic Types

• Relationship Types

• Explained: Monogamy

• Monogamish

• Polyamory, Monogamy, Monoamory & Open Relating

• Sexual Orientation

• Partnership vs. Mentorship

• Expectations in Relationships

• Erotic Archetypes

• Guest Lecture: Olivia Seline

• Partner Support

 

6.5 Intimacy Reset 10 Step Journey (CONTENT WARNING)

• Introduction

• Self Focus Phase

• Presensate Phase

• Sensate I Phase

• Sensate I Phase Additions

• Sensate II Phase Interim

• Sensate II Phase

• Sensate Focus Plus

• Sensate Mutual Phase

• Containment & Frottage Phase

• Creative Phase

• Extras

 

6.6 ACCESS TO: Art of Cyclic Love Making Four Week 

• Love & Sex in the Follicular Phase

• Love & Sex in the Ovulatory Phase

• Love & Sex in the Luteal Phase

• Love & Sex in the Menstrual phase

LEVEL THREE

The Emotional Realm of Sexuality

 

Module 1 – Emotions & Sexuality

1. Emotions and Feelings

2. Element of Water

3. Emotions in our Sexuality

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Explore how emotions influence sexual expression.

• Apply emotional literacy practices in coaching sessions.

 

Module 2 – Trauma & Emotional Processing

1. Trauma & Emotional Processing

2. The Nervous System & Emotional Cues

3. Our Emotional Centre + Breast Care

4. Access to: Big Kunta Energy Program

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Recognize trauma patterns and dissociation in clients.

• Apply trauma-informed care and know when to refer on.

• Teach nervous system regulation and emotional safety practices.

• Empower clients through breast care and emotional responsibility.
   

 

Module 3 – Cyclical Awareness: Enchantress Archetypes

• Luteal & Deep Luteal Phase / Last Quarter Moon / Autumn / Maga Phase

• Sensual Journey of the Maga

• Other Luteal / Premenstrual Archetypes

• Exploring Expression of Self

• Tracking our Cyclic Nature

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Map premenstrual phases to archetypal energies.

• Support clients in embracing Maga and autumnal archetypes.
   

 

Module 4 – Water Rituals

1. Water in Ritual

2. Sacred Waters & Squirtshop

3. Element of Water, Emotions & Somatic Sex Coaching 

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Incorporate ritual water practices into client journeys.

• Facilitate safe exploration of fluidity, squirt, and sacred waters.
   

Module 5 – Yoni Worship

1. Yoni Adornment

2. Yoni Libation

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Facilitate reverent, empowering yoni-centered practices.
  Guide clients through rituals of self-acceptance and worship.

 

Module 6 – Expanding Emotional Coaching Work

1. Expanding your work

2. Useful techniques for emotional processing

3. Empowerment exercises to release people pleasure & Become a Boundary Boss

4. Level Three Self assessment

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Teach emotional release techniques and boundary practices.

• Support clients in becoming more empowered and resilient.

• Assess personal growth in emotional coaching competency.

Module Two Expanded

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2.0 Trauma & Emotional Processing

• Trauma, Emotional Overwhelm & Referring On

• Trauma & Dissociation

• Guest Lecturer: Isabel Lamar Trauma & Sexuality

• Trauma Held in the Body

• Somatic Experiencing

• Trauma & Alexithymia

• Practices for Micro Trauma

• Empathy Burnout & Vicarious Trauma

• Trauma Informed Care Training Resource

• Sexual Shame

• Demonstrations

• Intergenerational Trauma

 

2.1 The Nervous System & Emotional Cues

• Nervous System Exploration

• The Nervous system in Sex

• Nervous System Support

• Tend & Befriend

• Neurodivergence & sex

 

2.2 Our Emotional Centre

• Emotional Centres

• Emotional Responsibility

• Power of Breast Care

• Breasts & Breast Massage

• Anatomy & Massage

• Breast Meditation

 

2.3 Access To: Big Kunta Energy Program (CW)

• Big Kunta Energy

• Weeks 1 & 2

• Weeks 3 & 4

• Weeks 5 & 6

• Weeks 7 & 8

• Closing Ceremony

LEVEL FOUR

The Physical Realm of Sexuality

 

Module 1 – Earth & the Body

1. Earth & the Physical 

2. Earth Element

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Integrate the earth element into embodied coaching.

• Teach clients grounding practices for stability and safety.
   

Module 2 – Anatomy & Physiology

1. Reproductive System

2. Vaginal Anatomy

3. Vulva Anatomy

4. Clitoral Anatomy

5. Womb Anatomy & Care

6. Access to: Anal Blossoming Program

7. Nervous System

8. Hormones, Neuro-chemicals & Neurotransmitters

9. Pelvic Anatomy

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Teach accurate anatomy and physiology of sexuality.

• Apply anatomical knowledge in client work.
  Support clients exploring anal pleasure with care and safety.
   

 

Module 3 – Yoni Massage Practices

1. Self Yoni Massage

2. Couples Yoni Massage

3. Yoni Massage Techniques

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Guide self yoni massage practices.

• Apply techniques for both self-care and partnered intimacy.
   

Module 4 – Tools & Rituals

1. Plants for Yoni Care

2. Tools for Yoni Care

Learning Outcomes:

• Introduce clients to supportive tools for yoni care.

• Weave ritual practices into coaching sessions.
   

Module 5 – Blood Mysteries & Cyclical Power

1. Blood Magic

2. Women’s Circles

3. Sex & Our Cycles

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Facilitate rituals around menstruation and blood magic.

• Hold space for women’s circles and cyclical empowerment.
   

Module 6 – Sensuality & Embodiment

1. Sensuality

2. Yoga for Women & Vulva Havers

3. Access to Sensual Woman Temple Dance Program

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Teach embodiment practices through yoga and sensual dance.

 

Module 7 – Spirit Baby Course

1. Access to the Spirit Baby Course
    

Learning Outcomes:

• Learn practices to support clients in their loss.

• Support clients in their sexuality during this stage of their lives.

 

Module 8 – Crone Archetypes & Midlife Sexuality

1. Menstruation / Dark moon / Winter / Crone Phase

2. Archetypal Wisdom: Other Wise Woman Archetypes

3. Blood Goddess Journey

4. Earth & the Physical in Somatic Sex Coaching

5. Sex in our midlife and beyond

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Empower clients in midlife and post-menopausal sexuality.

• Facilitate archetypal journeys with the Crone and Wise Woman.
   

Module 9 – Professional Practice & Coaching Skills

1. Somatic Sex Coaching Guidelines

2. Somatic Sex Coaching Preparation

3. Somatic Sex Coaching Demonstrations

4. Somatic Sex Coaching Revision

5. Level Four Self assessment

6. Workshops & Retreats Guidance

7. Wrapping Up & Business Tools

8. Contracts Waivers Forms & Logistics

9. Ceremonies

10. Entrepreneurship

 

Learning Outcomes:

• Apply professional guidelines and ethical practices.

• Demonstrate coaching methods with confidence.

• Manage contracts, waivers, and client logistics.

• Design and facilitate workshops, retreats, and ceremonies.

• Transition from student to professional with business tools.

Module Nine Expanded

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9.0 Somatic Sex Coaching Guidelines

• Coaching Guidelines

• Giving Advice

• Unhealthy Habits & Loose Boundaries

• Sexual Liberation Looks different for everyone

• Additional Coaching Takeaways

 

9.1 Somatic Sex Coaching Preparation

• Honing your Coaching Skills

• Referral List

• Integration

• Unsatisfied Clients

 

9.2 Somatic Sex Coaching Demonstrations & Methods

• Coaching Demonstrations

• The HEARTS Method

• GUEST LECTURER: Bri Rossato on Teaching / Coaching Methods

• GUEST LECTURER: Jodi Rodgers ~ Coaching & Neurodivergence

• Clients as a Resource

• Working with Kids & Parents

 

9.3 Somatic Sex Coaching Level One Revision

• Somatic Sex Coaching

• Exploring Somatic Sex Coaching

• Introduction to Session Flow

• Coaching Questions

• Somatic Coaching Reflections

• Reflections on Effective Communication in Coaching

• Introspection Time

• Ways to Practice Coaching Now

• PLISSIT & MEMES Models of Coaching

 

9.4 Somatic Sex Coaching Level One Revision

• Setting up the space

• Connecting with the client

• Integration and aftercare

 

9.4 Self Assessment

• Level 4 Reflection Quiz

• Client Vignette

• SAR Third & Final Submission

 

9.5 Wrapping Up & Business Tools

• Workshops & Retreats Guidance

• Evaluation Template

• Workshop Flyer

• Workshop Plan

• Facilitation

 

9.6 Contracts, Waivers, Forms & Logistics

• Logistics & Contracts for Coaching Practicum Clients

• Email & Waiver for SSC Clients

• Email & Waiver for TYM Clients

• Client Forms

• Checklist

• Duty of Care

• Age and our Work

 

9.7 Ceremonies

• Introduction to Ceremony

• Moontime Awakening Ceremony

• Mother Ceremony

• Crone Ceremony

• Goddess Ceremony

 

9.8 Entrepreneurship

• Transitioning from Student to Professional

• Sacred Sales

• Additional Business Tools

• Allyship & Language

• Business Coaching Tips

• Facebook Tips

• Referral List / Resources

Accreditation

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This training is accredited by the International Institute of Complementary Therapies (Australia) and the American Board of Sexology (USA).

Graduates who complete:

1. The full online curriculum, and
    

2. Two months of supervised practicum under Kiki or Liz
    

qualify as Certified Somatic Sex Coaches, with access to professional insurance in 20+ countries.